The explanations you give are usually right on. You seem to know what I'm feeling. Each time I talk to you I feel stronger and stronger. ---Debbie

Dealing with a cheating spouse or cheating boyfriend can be one of the most painful and devastating experiences a relationship can face.I cannot recommend this book enough. It not only outlines specifically the 7 types of affairs (and how to handle each - whether you choose to stay or go), but you will find it's material empowering. This book will help you to fully understand that YOU are not defective.There is nothing wrong with YOU! It also begins with the big question: "Do you really want to be in a relationship with this person?"Anyone faced with infidelity, or anyone who wants to avoid infidelity should have a copy ofthis book. I cannot recommend it enough. Tracey of pig-dogs.net

It is very important for the sanity of we who have been betrayed to know that we are NOT crazy and that an affair is NOT our "fault". You are terrific for providing this information ---Yvonne

I often find myself wanting to talk to others that may be able to share some of their experiences with me. As you must already know, it's a bit difficult sometimes to speak about your feelings of deception with those whom you consider friends. One of the biggest challenges is being able to face your pain and bring it to light so that everyone else knows just what you are going through. I found this site on a day when I felt so darn lonely, and just out of answers. I began reading some of the advise that you gave to others and for the first time I realized I was not alone in my struggle. ---Alan

Thank you so much. Your advice makes a lot of sense, for us to find a way to use the pain of these prank calls to make us stronger. I think my wife & I are making great progress together in our relationship and saving our marriage. I thank you so much for your ebook and your advice in this specific matter. As a person who has felt like my life has been turned upside down during this ordeal, you have provided me much support and "calm" to my situation. Terry

Unfortunately, my marriage is over and I am in the process of accepting it. Nonetheless, the insights you have provided have contributed greatly to both my mental well-being and my ability to cope with the situation. Jeff

the "what not to do" section has been invaulable as before i was doing exactly those things and now I have stopped them! ( I actually cringe at how I reacted before, although it was a natural reaction!) the other Item has been to Chrage neutral, although my partner cannot understand why I am being "nice" to him. ( I am not! I am just charging neutral) Nicola

The way your information is worded helps me keep peace when I, at the very least, want to shake him silly!!! Maybe even bite a chunk out of him...just kidding. Your program has helped me regain so much, I see a beautiful woman in the mirror now and feel able to handle what life may bring. For the past several years, during the affair, I felt so ugly. And I think I was; the tension, doubts, confusion showed in my face. Once, I was told the truth, there was a release, though it has been very painful. The truth does set one free. Plus, I am smiling more than I have in a very long time. Lisa

Thank you for caring enough about people and thank you for bringing some sanity to my not so sane world. ---Brad

The books are proving to be extremely helpful, not so much for my partner, but most importantly they have helped me regain some lost confidence and make me see there is a way to end how I am feeling.I have been taking on board everything mentioned in your book, and have learnt my partner is a number 3. It is as though you wrote exactly about him, and the techniques suggested for this type of cheater are really beginning to work, we are talking more and I think he is slowly realising he runs a serious risk of losing me forever.I cant say yet that we are over all our hurdles, but we are definitely making more progress now that I have your book as a guide. I must admit I was a little sceptical about your books, and really only bought them as a desperate attempt to try anything, but I am so thankful I stumbled upon your website as I now regard your book as invaluable, and I would most definitely recommend to anyone that is going through an affair to read them. The book has really changed my whole outlook on life and on myself. I know now that I am not to blame for what happened, and that I am worth something.Thankyou so much for all your research, and for making your books personal enough to make me see that I am not alone in what I am going through. Alisha

Your materials are very helpful--one of the best "affair" sites on the web. ---Amy