Infidelity Warning Signs

Clues & Infidelity Warning Signs of a Cheating Spouse:

The way to look for infidelity warning signs is to look for small changes in your spouse. These chnges are usually unnoticed if you are not consciously looking for them but they are sure way to find infidelity warning signs.

Look out not just for obvious infidelity warning signs but also those that could lead to you more signs.

• Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.(They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.). Don't easily dismiss these infidelity warning signs no matter how ridiculous they may seem.  
• Your spouse stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
• Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it. May be just a need for privacy but more often than not are infidelity warning signs.
• They start to be conscious of their looks and take effort over personal looks like joining a gym.He buys himself new underwear. Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
• She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know. Another infidelity warning sign to look out for. Or he sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.  One good way is to find a way to check for regular numbers.
• The cheating husband carries condoms when he normally doesn't.

Other infidelity warning signs

• Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate. Not obvious but still good to give some infidelity warning signs.
• He becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.
• Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?" I think this are common infidelity warning signs at least in thoughts.  
• He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car. I experienced that before. But it may not be good infidelity warning signs but it was to me.
• The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.
• Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back. Suddenly wants to try new love techniques. That's another of those possible infidelity warning signs. He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you. Or he/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.
• Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub. You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days. Good  infidelity warning signs.
• Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
• Shows a sudden interest in a different thing like say a different type of music.
• Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
• He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's house and had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.
• Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.
• His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.
• The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
• You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.
• Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.
• You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice. This are very common infidelity warning signs that many people dismiss as just a "wrong number". Starts there.  

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