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Infidelity: Spying is NOT
Revenge
by Dr. Robert Huizenga,
The Infidelity Coach
Do not use what you find on your cheating spouse
as ammunition for revenge. Sure, you may have wonderfully
violent fantasies of what you would really like to do to
him/her and the other person. This is very normal. But,
don’t act them out.
Using what you find to extract revenge will only
lengthen the time of pain and anger. It will undermine
your integrity as a person, lower your personal standards
and make you exceedingly unattractive.
Resist the temptation to sling the
mud!
Keep what you find to yourself.
The obvious signs of a cheating spouse disturbed
you. You spy because the truth will set YOU free. The
quickest cleanest way to break free from the extramarital
affair is to set your focus on you as you navigate your
way through the difficult weeks and months.
The sooner the two of you can face each other,
without outside input or influence, the better off you
and the relationship will be.
There usually is no reason to share new found
information about cheating husbands or cheating wives
with family, friends, children or the spouse of the other
person. A concern about sexually transmitted diseases or
health risks might be an exception. If it is important to
share such information, do so without much fanfare or
drama.
And of course, if you pursue legal action, any
information obtained through spying might be helpful to
your attorney. Some “evidence” does carry weight in
particular states or districts.
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Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach, has
helped hundreds of couples over the past two decades heal
from the agony of extramarital affairs and survive
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