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Why is it that too often, it is the spouse or wife who is last to know that their other half is cheating?   All the signs are there and it is basically not difficult if you open your eyes and reason out for yourself.

If you suspect cheating, just put on your thinking caps and look for some signs. A subtle deviation can be a warning bell.

First, consider purchasing a GPS Vehicle Tracking Device, so you’ll know exactly where your spouse has been, down to the last mile.   They are easily available these days.  One source is here.

However, you must be sure that you want to know the truth.  Knowing the truth may well destroy all the confidence you have built up over the years and it is not easy to look at things in the right perspective.  Infidelity is always difficult.

If you really want to know the truth, these are some signs that can give away a cheater include:

1. A sudden change of regular habits and an increase in time away from home, such as attending new functions, or working late etc. Sometimes it may not even be alone.  Sudden interest in going to particular functions or places could mean something too.
2. A decreased sexual interest in you.  The tired or headache excuse is probably not due to work. 
3. Increased Viagra use.   Secret purchases over the internet.
4. Leaves a room to take a phone call or whispers when many people tend to talk louder on phones, especially cell phones.
5. Always keep the cell phone at their side even when sleeping or bathing.  Spends a lot of time sending text messages.  Sudden interest in picture downloads.
6. Cell phone text messages come ar wierd hours like early mornings or late at night.  Explainations of wrong numbers more often than usual.
7. Tends to use the computer alone and is more secretive and defensive about it. Such as deleting their Web Browser's history of sites visited or emptying the Recycle/Trash Bin.
8. Cell phone bill goes up or trying to hide it.
9. Uses the computer when you are asleep.
10. Exhibits a compulsive need to check e-mail, be online or Instant Message someone.
11. Tilts the computer monitor away from view when you enter the room.
12. Seems to be unusually interested in your schedule.
13. Starts doing their own laundry or checks their clothes carefully.
14. They have unexplained credit card charges or bank receipts.
15. Starts buying you guilt gifts such as flowers. 

The cheater knows many of the techniques used by Private Investigators who specialize in this kind of work. They know to look for surveillance when traveling to meet their lover. They know the computer might be monitored. They know that phone numbers can be traced.  You must be aware of that.


Anothere sure thing in most cases is If your partner starts buying condoms, even though you’re using Birth Control Pills, this is cause for concern. A Semen Detection Test Kit, provides indisputable evidence of their infidelity.

It’s important that you do not give them any reason to be more cautious or alert. Smart cheaters will often take a few of these precautions:
 
Always check to see if they are being followed. Tries not to deviate from their usual schedule.

Will make the affair fit into a normal day to avoid suspicion.

Never stores phone numbers in their phone, writes them down, or gives the person they're speaking to a fake name, etc.

Never makes any calls from the home phone—your spouse or lover could have a recorder connected—or cancels Caller-ID .

Gets a pre-paid calling card to use from home or work or with payphones.

Clear the cell phone call history frequently.

Asks friends to cover for them.

Never gets involved with someone you or your friends know.

Keeps the affair away from places where friends and co-workers could see them. 
 
Never uses a credit card to pay for restaurants or hotels, EZ-Pass and ATMs, or anything that leaves a trail.

Always showers or cover up with cologne, etc. before returning home after a romantic tryst.
When they meet, tells their lover not to wear cologne or perfume, or wear the same brand as yours.

They will arrive separately at clubs or restaurants. 

They may carry "proof" of where they were last night such as matches or leave a receipt around to be discovered. This is especially true if you are suspicious. 


If you find out about the cheating, you have only come to the first step.  The next one is more difficult trying to ask yourself why they are cheating. There are many possibilities, such as a mid-life crisis, the arrival of a new baby, or simply boredom, and you should probably review them. This knowledge will become important if you decide to confront your cheating spouse. Then again, you may decide to keep this a secret and use it as grounds for divorce.