YOUR LOVER IS EMOTIONAL OR DEPRESSED. "All I have to do is ask a
simple, polite question and he starts yelling at me to get off his
back!" It could be that he or she is brooding about what they have
done and can't handle the guilt. Sudden explosive displays of
affection or anger can also be a bad sign, as the partner might be
transferring emotional reactions from the outlaw relationship onto
you simply because you see each other more often. In other words,
you may be the recipient of a mood that is not due to any of your
actions at all, but because the third party provoked a fight!

YOUR MATE BECOMES MORE PRIVATE. "She has always undressed in front
of me, but now she wraps herself up in housecoat like she is afraid
I will catch her in the nude." Cheaters psychologically distance
themselves in such subtle ways as locking the bathroom door when he
or she has always left it open, doing their own laundry or keeping
locked drawers. If he or she seems extra finicky about personal
boundaries or seems to be trying to set new rules about privacy,
this is also a warning sign.

YOUR MATE'S PERSONAL STYLE CHANGES. "For years, the two of us
watched the Rocky Horror Picture Show together and now he is poo
pooing that and saying he was not that into it, just humoring me."
Dating experts say that if your partner's taste in clothing, movies
or music suddenly changes, than they may be trying please their new
lover.

Perhaps the biggest indication that you might be dealing with a
cheater is if they stop acting as if they are a part of your life.
They may lose complete interest in family, friends or following
through on mutual financial goals or plans for the future. Your
mate also might be reluctant to go out of town or on vacation, as
the time away might cause a crisis in his or her other relationship.

You need to find out the truth simply because you are wasting all
of your financial, physical and material energies into building a
future with someone who may not be planning to build a future with
you!

If you do discover your partner is cheating your relationship will
also probably go through three phases. The first is the reaction to
the affair, the second is the decision as to what to do about it
and the last is a recuperation phase (whether or not you decide to
stick it out with your partner in the end.) If your partner is
willing to be part of the decision and recuperation phases, it is
highly recommended that you seek marriage or relationship
counseling to deal with the fall-out from the infidelity.

No matter how you find out the truth, whether it be through the use
of a private detective, a portable lie detector or catching the
perpetrator in the act, knowing it is better than being afraid of
it. Remember that the truth may hurt but it will also set you free.

If you'd like to read my comprehensive guide on how to catch a
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Warm wishes,
Sarah Paul

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